Let's face it we all have some baggage by the time we find ourselves 40 and single again (for most of us). But that doesn't mean we have to settle for good enough, because in a sea of bad or not great, good enough starts looking appealing. Men if you say, I find it so frustrating meeting quality beautiful women because its hard to get through the noise. I nurture, text and call a woman for days or weeks then we finally meet and it is not a fit. Women, if your frustration with the dating apps is: I get hundreds and even thousands of likes or match requests, it is overwhelming and when I finally try to take a chance I am disappointed, or they end up being married or in a relationship!